What is your idea of the perfect gift? If someone special in your life were to ask you to describe in detail what you would like as confirmation of their love and devotion toward you, could you do it?
Take note over the next several days of the flurry of activity in retail stores, as shoppers scramble to find the perfect gift for Valentine's Day to say I LOVE YOU.
Some will purchase boxes of delicious chocolates.
Some will choose to surprise that special person in their life with beautiful flowers.
There will be multitudes of adorable stuffed animals given.
Some with chocolates!
Others will surprise their sweethearts with balloon bouquets. ; )
And some will even give fine jewels to express their love.
Is there anyone who doesn't enjoy receiving gifts?
Would you believe me if I told you that not everyone prefers material gifts?
Every year, for as long as I can remember, each member of my family has asked what I would like as a gift for holidays such as Valentine's Day, my birthday, Mother's Day, Christmas.
And each year I have basically said the same thing. Just write a note of how you feel.
While I thoroughly enjoy every material gift I'm given, the truth is…
the gift I cherish most is their sentiments towards me.
Do you find that odd?
According to Dr. Gary Chapman, there are five primary means of expressing and interpreting love–the love languages. Each of us will identify with one or two of these languages more than all the others. The five languages are: Quality Time, Words of Affirmation, Gifts, Acts of Service, and Physical Touch.
I've learned that Words of Affirmation is my primary love language.
I do so enjoy words…written or spoken. Could that be a factor in why I've enjoyed blogging so much?!
For that reason, every card and letter that my husband and children have ever given me–whether store-bought or handmade–resides in a very special keepsake box.
This rather large card (16 ½" x 24") was given to me by my children almost nine years ago. It still brings tears to my eyes and is one of my most cherished possessions!
For me, the heartfelt words of love expressed–written or spoken–by those I hold most dear is without a doubt the perfect gift!
Though this trio of beautiful gift bags will not reach the winner in time for Valentine's giving this year, they will provide a head start on holiday shopping for next year!
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